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and billionaire's deathbed thoughts

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Noah Kagan, entrepreneur and CEO at AppSumo has interviewed 25 billionaires in the last couple years (1% of all billionaires).
The most common regret they have, he says, is not being there with and for their families more.
Many times their business (or really their busy-ness) led to divorce, separation and strained relationships with kids and grandkids.
Was it worth it?
No matter your bank account, weāll all likely ask the same question on our deathbed.
But before youāre on your deathbed, youāre here, right now, reading this post.
AKA, youāre still alive!
And whether youāre 22 or 102, you may have some regrets of your own.
So how do you course correct before itās too late?
Itās easy, and it just takes changing one phrase:
Instead of: āGosh, I shouldāve done ____ā
Say: āNext time Iāll ____ā

Cause thereās no use crying over spilled milk, right?
Whatās done is done.
But what lies ahead is in your control and ripe for change.
It turns out studies show that more people tend to regret things they didnāt do more than things they did wrong.
So youāre surest path to not regretting things you do in the future⦠is literally to just do things!
To recap:
Most people have at least some regrets (especially at end of life)
People have less regrets when they are more active rather than passive in taking risks and acting on their ideas and inspiration
Whenever you feel a regret pop up, replace that thought by clearly stating what youāll do different.
It may be a simple change of semantics, but itās 1,000X more empowering than the alternative.
What will you do next time?
Never regret yesterday. Life is in you today and you make your tomorrow.
What ideas popped in your head while reading? Hit reply and let me know!
BRAIN SNACKS
š¶ Friend Like You (song)
ā¤ļø The surprising secret to a happy marriage (YouTube)
𤣠What most nutrition advice feels like (Instagram Reel)
š³ Beautiful anti-AI ad from Nikon (LinkedIn)
ā³ No matter your age, 45 years of your life are already gone (Habit Example from 1 year ago)
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Me: *starts tickling my 5 year old*
Her: Dad, stop! Iām gonna poop out my tickles!
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- Kody
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